I feel awful about my affair
Dear Cary,I really need you to tell me how to forgive myself, and how to carry on after I had an affair. I'm sorry if this ends up really long and please edit however you need to. Basically, I have...
View ArticleAm I just a mother now?
Dear Cary,I am 37. It's an age by when I thought I would have the answers to questions and choices life threw at me. But with every year that I have grown older, the less it seems to me that there...
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Gen. Petraeus, just another philanderer
The Petraeus affair would be ever so boring if it didn’t involve the resignation of the head of the CIA, the most celebrated general in recent history, the reputed inventor of modern warcraft, the man...
View ArticleYou don’t need a fancy phone to be a cheater!
Flip-phones are slowly being relegated to the dustbins of tech history, but some people are choosing to hold on to their low-tech devices.Cheaters!According to Wired, Fujitsu's F-Series phones have...
View ArticleGOP’s backward sexual politics
Long before Gov. Eliot Spitzer and Sen. David Vitter, Abraham Lincoln paid prostitutes. And he contracted syphilis. Long before -- and here you can supply whichever name comes to mind first -- James A....
View ArticleHow the creep Mark Sanford might actually win
Not that my opinion matters much in South Carolina’s first congressional district, but Mark Sanford strikes me as rather loopy, and somewhat creepy. Yet he may well win his race against Elizabeth...
View ArticleWoman who photographed alleged cheater: “I just thought he was such a pig”
When Stephanie snapped her fellow train passenger's picture on Wednesday and posted it to Facebook with the warning that he was loudly bragging about his infidelities, she never expected to get...
View ArticleMark Sanford to social conservatives: “I am not worthy”
Recently elected South Carolina Rep. Mark Sanford told a group of social conservatives in Washington today that he felt unworthy of speaking to them, given his extramarital affair a few years ago."I...
View ArticleAbout that braggart on the train: What she should have done
Dear Reader,Some stuff makes you feel dirty. Like this Steph Strayer/ Man Bragging about Cheating on his Wife on Commuter Train/ Facebook Photo Posting Gone Viral/ Public Shaming/ Ethical Slugfest/...
View ArticleCuccinelli reportedly once backed adultery bans
Ken Cuccinelli, the anti-sodomy Virginia attorney general who is also running for governor, reportedly once expressed support for keeping anti-adultery laws "on the books."Politico reports that...
View ArticleI forgave my husband for cheating
When I found out about my husband’s affair, I thought the worst was over. For six months, I had cried and raged, but I was finally starting to feel a glimmer of hope. And that’s when he made an...
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What Alexander Hamilton has in common with Anthony Weiner
In the summer of 1791, Alexander Hamilton received a visitor.Maria Reynolds, a 23-year-old blonde, came to Hamilton’s Philadelphia residence to ask for help. Her husband, James Reynolds, had abandoned...
View ArticleI’ve got the hots for a bad, bad man
Dear Cary,I have never written to an advice columnist before. Out of all of the ones I know of, online and off, you are the one I trust the most because of your compassionate and spirited wisdom.I am a...
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Adultery falls behind bad behavior as leading grounds for divorce
Warring couples are only half as likely to cite adultery as the cause of a marriage breakdown than they were 40 years ago, but claims of unreasonable behaviour have rocketed, analysis of more than 5m...
View ArticleGOP’s backward sexual politics
Long before Gov. Eliot Spitzer and Sen. David Vitter, Abraham Lincoln paid prostitutes. And he contracted syphilis. Long before -- and here you can supply whichever name comes to mind first -- James A....
View ArticleHow the creep Mark Sanford might actually win
Not that my opinion matters much in South Carolina’s first congressional district, but Mark Sanford strikes me as rather loopy, and somewhat creepy. Yet he may well win his race against Elizabeth...
View ArticleWoman who photographed alleged cheater: “I just thought he was such a pig”
When Stephanie snapped her fellow train passenger's picture on Wednesday and posted it to Facebook with the warning that he was loudly bragging about his infidelities, she never expected to get...
View ArticleMark Sanford to social conservatives: “I am not worthy”
Recently elected South Carolina Rep. Mark Sanford told a group of social conservatives in Washington today that he felt unworthy of speaking to them, given his extramarital affair a few years ago."I...
View ArticleAbout that braggart on the train: What she should have done
Dear Reader,Some stuff makes you feel dirty. Like this Steph Strayer/ Man Bragging about Cheating on his Wife on Commuter Train/ Facebook Photo Posting Gone Viral/ Public Shaming/ Ethical Slugfest/...
View ArticleCuccinelli reportedly once backed adultery bans
Ken Cuccinelli, the anti-sodomy Virginia attorney general who is also running for governor, reportedly once expressed support for keeping anti-adultery laws "on the books."Politico reports that...
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